Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another. – Proverbs 27:17

Heat and sparks are the result of two pieces of iron being drawn across each other. The resistance from the friction creates heat that cleans a blade and hones it to a fine, useful edge. In an ideal setting, people who disagree actually help one another, as each one benefits from considering a different perspective. But today, deep division exists in this nation and, tragically, even among professed followers of Christ. How can you navigate disagreement and benefit from it?

It is important to realize that some conflict is unavoidable! Some issues are vital to the truth of the Gospel, and standing firmly upon your conscience and conviction is legitimate. Jesus was firm about the reality that His message was controversial. “I have not come to bring peace, but a sword” (Matthew 10:34). 

Pride is a major obstacle to learning from conflict. It is a favorite tool of the enemy to separate you from the knowledge of God and His flowing grace. Do you want to grow in faith? “Humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you” (1 Peter 5:6). To be a testimony to Christ, “Do all things without grumbling or disputing, that you may be blameless… without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world” (Philippians 2:14-15).

Pray for those in authority, in government and churches across this country, to lay down any pride that blocks God’s grace and blessing. Ask that humble leaders, sharpened by knowledge of God, rise up for the benefit of all.